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Meet Penelope

With a public career spanning over two decades, Penelope Jean Hayes has become a trusted mentor for those navigating the complexities of life. From 2007 to 2013, Penelope was the go-to publicist for many stars from ABC’s The Bachelor, possibly representing more contestants than any publicist in history. Her unique role offered her an insider’s view of love stories played out on the world stage, where she supported and advised individuals through public breakups, new beginnings, career opportunities, and everything in between.

Penelope's talent for understanding people and their goals and challenges extends beyond her role as a publicist. As an on-camera host and popular culture analyst for ABC News in Charleston, South Carolina, from 2009 to 2014, she shared her insights with a broader audience. Her warmth and relatability resonated with viewers, making her a beloved figure in popular culture.

In 2020, Penelope authored the best-selling self-help book The Magic of Viral Energy, where she shared her groundbreaking insights into the energy dynamics that influence our lives and relationships. Her ability to distill complex concepts into practical advice has made her a sought-after expert on shows like The Dr. Phil Show. Dr. Phil McGraw himself praised her, saying, "Penelope, you are very good!"

In addition, Penelope has interviewed leaders in the United States Air Force and the North American Aerospace Defence Command. With her years of experience on-camera as a host, she was cast as a Presenter for the unscripted television series Strange Evidence (Science Channel) in 2022, although the series was put on hold prior to filming.

Penelope is the leading authority on Viral Energy™, having founded and trademarked the study known as Viralenology. This innovative field explores how our thoughts, actions, and surroundings affect our emotional and relational well-being. She has turned this knowledge into actionable wisdom through professional mentorship and online courses.

Penelope's approach is not just theoretical; it's grounded in real-life experience. While she has navigated her own journey of trial and error in relationships, she remains committed to elevating all aspects of her life and continues to grow and evolve as she helps others do the same. Penelope has been happily married to her husband Burton since 2013, and they live in the tranquil beauty of Naples, Florida.

 

"We’re social creatures and we do give off energy and vibes. An event or influence can have a small effect and start to work on you in a positive or negative way. You probably don’t realize that you are starting to think differently, so it really is like you’re catching a silent factor that you might not be aware of."

- Dr. Gerald J. Haeffel, Department of Psychology, University of Notre Dame

"Penelope, you're a natural."

- Dr. Phil McGraw, The Dr. Phil Show

"It’s really an interesting concept—these infectious agents that you’re calling them. Maybe you’re a person who doesn’t have enough ‘Teflon’ (emotional armor), so things stick to you. Turn off media and social media at a certain point. I think social media can make it hard to have ‘Teflon’ these days because sometimes you can be constantly reminded of what is negative. I think there’s something to it, it’s like you get this virus, you get this infectious agent."

- Dr. Stephen Hinshaw, Ph.D., Chair of the Department of Psychology, University of California, Berkeley; Vice-Chair of Psychology, Department of Psychiatry, University of California, San Francisco; Editor, Psychological Bulletin; author of The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today’s Pressures

My Why

It comes down to my own story and what I've learned along the way.

My passion is to empower and "tool-up" people who feel lost, lonely, or unfulfilled—like I once was, before I figured out the key to turning all that around.

For me, it took hitting rock bottom one New Year's Eve of my singlehood youth, when I was crying in turmoil on my bathroom floor, holding the side of the tub and eyeing it for what it could be used for.

Instead, that night I made a different choice and then wrote in my journal, "I'm going to drill through the rock of this tomb and then share how I did it."

A few months later, I changed everything in my life: I quit my job and moved to Nashville where I immediately began meditating daily in a nearby forest.

My career had been in public relations, so the minute my feet hit the ground in Nashville, I began a business in publicity and represented Country music artists, and also many, many stars from ABC's The Bachelor and The Bachelorette.

My daily meditation practice worked on me like a medicine and opportunities were opening up everywhere. Not only did I begin to feel much happier; but I also intuited a system of creative energy while sitting still and surrounded by the forest and its animals. I had always been a journaler and a writer, so, I wrote while in the forest. Over time, those notes became the bestselling book, The Magic of Viral Energy.

Soon, I was running a new business around my trademarked "viralenology" method and appearing regularly on network television. And, I met and married my husband, Burton.

Today, we live in South Florida. Burt is a homebuilder and I've expanded my business from working one-on-one with clients to also serving many more people through the addition of online courses, remote mentorship, guided meditation tracks, personal growth and betterment coaching, speaking engagements, and a number of published books.

I am truly living in creativity and fulfillment. Of course, I still experience emotional pain, loss, and stress—yet, I have a baseline of "rooted happiness" and I know how to elevate my frequency so that I can realign with all that I love to do, be, and have.

I want the same for you. And, I know that when people elevate their consciousness and their frequency, they simply no longer have a reward response with low thoughts and behaviors. All of those reasons are my "why" and mission.

Society may put us in boxes, but that doesn't mean you have to stay there. So, break free and start living your fulfilling life with unapologetic confidence.

Please know this: What you want—that dream, goal, or relationship—has a frequency. It is only a matter of being in the flow with that frequency and then actively choosing it.

As your cheerleader and mentor, let me show you how to get there.

—Penelope

The Magic Of Viral Energy

"A welcome guidebook for your own passage through the bewilderment we all meet up with in finding what truly makes you happy."
—Dr. Fred Alan Wolf, cast of The Secret documentary

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